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By James Bassil. Gentlemen, start your engines. From the Bar to the Bedroom is the definitive go—to book for anyone in need of guidance when it comes to bedding the fairer sex, from approaching the woman one wishes to take home to dazzling her once she's there. Divided into 11 rules, the book begins by helping men learn the fundamentals of confidence and conversation. It moves on to instruct men on the virtues of foreplay, the importance of having a sex—friendly bachelor pad, ways they can pick up women at the gym or at the office, and the variety of techniques and tricks they can use to make her night unforgettable. With tasteful line drawings, loads of tips, and a friendly, humorous tone, it is essential reading for everyone —— from the novice who wants to enter the game to the player who wants to polish his moves.

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By James Bassil. Gentlemen, start your engines. From the Bar to the Bedroom is the definitive go—to book for anyone in need of guidance when it comes to bedding the fairer sex, from approaching the woman one wishes to take home to dazzling her once she's there. Divided into 11 rules, the book begins by helping men learn the fundamentals of confidence and conversation. It moves on to instruct men on the virtues of foreplay, the importance of having a sex—friendly bachelor pad, ways they can pick up women at the gym or at the office, and the variety of techniques and tricks they can use to make her night unforgettable.

With tasteful line drawings, loads of tips, and a friendly, humorous tone, it is essential reading for everyone —— from the novice who wants to enter the game to the player who wants to polish his moves. Since , AskMen. Today, most men could care less. Of course, some male concerns are ongoing staples.

And on that list of ever-present inquiries, the issue of finding success with women has always hovered near the top. Some men respond to this confusion by bemoaning its source: Why is it on me to approach and seduce her? So rather than waiting on the sidelines for the gender roles to reverse, these are the guys that suck it up and start refining their skills. They do so by joining the millions that read the advice at AskMen.

In this book, you will find eleven cardinal rules you need to follow to master the art of meeting, seducing, and pleasuring women. When it comes to approaching women, knowing exactly what to expect is crucial—what may happen, why it happens, and how to overcome obstacles.

The main reason so many men fail to approach and talk to women is because they fear the unknown such as the possible slap of rejection. Naturally, the more knowledge you have, the more confident you will be.

You need to be ready at all times. The truth of the matter is that you cannot depend on destiny or coincidence to deliver you into romantic encounters. However, it is one of the hardest character traits to fake, and also one of the most misunderstood. Some think that in order to emit confidence, one must show it through actions alone, while others believe confidence is acquired through words, and still others think one is born with it.

If you want to master confidence and retain it for life, you must learn to incorporate, monitor, and balance six key elements within your daily routine. Confidence breeds further confidence, and you will ultimately arrive at a frame of mind wherein your confidence feels like a natural part of your character; a trait that was always there.

Arriving at this state, however, will require persistence, fortitude, and patience. The very first step toward becoming a confident person involves building internal confidence through daily introspection. What does this mean? By thinking about and creating exercises of confidence, your body will react and display that confidence. But before you can get there, you need to take a deep and honest look at yourself.

You need to learn to feed off your strengths and eliminate—or at least minimize—your weaknesses. You need to develop personal habits that will put you into the right frame of mind and keep your confidence machine oiled and running strong.

Try the following to keep yourself motivated:. Talk to yourself : Practice speaking in the morning before leaving the house by clearing your throat and saying aloud, Good morning. You look damn good. You are number one. But your self-consciousness will dissipate as you feel the effects of this positive reinforcement technique gradually take hold. Get used to thinking this way about yourself.

Change negative outlooks into positive ones : Stop being depressed about being single. Instead of worrying about being alone, be happy that you have the opportunity to meet a world of single women.

Your physical appearance plays a very big role in your level of confidence. Not so much regarding how you feel about yourself, but how other people make you feel.

Think back to those times when you put that extra effort into your appearance, and were rewarded with approving looks on the street. Now think about the jolt of confidence that those same looks gave you—imagine the effects of receiving them every day! You should be exercising regularly, maintaining a healthy diet, and making all other requisite efforts in order to give the ladies what they like—a fit, healthy-looking, well-kept, and generally inviting appearance.

Your wardrobe obviously plays a significant role in maintaining an inviting appearance. When in a conversation with a woman, ration your words and prioritize listening to her. Encourage her to talk more by opening your mouth only to ask open-ended questions for instance, asking what her favorite color is would be a definite no-no.

More on this will follow in Chapter 2. Handing off the bulk of the conversation to her in this manner will both conceal the nervousness you may be experiencing and give her occasion to focus the discussion on herself—which will ensure that she remembers the conversation as a pleasant one. Keep your contributions short and simple, especially when you first meet someone.

The more you open your mouth, the greater the chance of saying something dumb, which, in turn, will cause you to get nervous, which will lead to a negative state of mind, which will lead to lower confidence, which leads to more nervousness, which leads to more stuttering … you get the picture.

By doing so, it will be easier to rebound from harsh situations. But no matter who you are, rejection will inevitably arise. The key is to not let it have a disproportionate effect on you. So if you get turned down, shake it off and move on to the next prospect. Improving your social skills will definitely have a large impact on your confidence.

Eventually, you can add a friendly hello, too. Get in the habit of being more amicable toward both women and men, regardless of their appearance. So keep it up. And if you ever encounter an anti-social individual who rudely ignores you, just remember Element No.

Make sure you know the difference and are smart enough to avoid the latter. The difference between confidence and cockiness resides in the internal drive behind each. If you are naturally confident, it will effortlessly shine through in your demeanor. Putting the entire emphasis on women will only lead you to make excuses about your interactions.

Own your behavior. Self-confidence comes from within. Portray an air of confidence. Earlier, we touched upon the idea of appearance breeding confidence. The right appearance is something of a self-fulfilling prophecy; dress the part and you will feel the part. There are women looking at you, and you want them to like what they see.

The fact remains that women will always have more suitors than men and for this reason, women can afford to be a little pickier about the men they choose to play with. This is why it is so important that you prime yourself to be picked.

The competition out there is ferocious, and those who succeed in landing women are those who realize and provide women with what they want. And one basic thing that all women want is a man with proper hygiene. Do the same as above for your personality. What have women complimented you on before, or at least responded favorably to? If it helps—and it probably will—write these things down.

Seeing it on paper makes it more concrete to you, and less doubtable. Although women hate to admit it, upon first impression most of them judge a man based on his outward appearance. So the first step in seducing a woman is presenting her with an image that appeals to her. Your clothes should be clean—from the outermost layer to the innermost ones. Your clothes should be intact and wrinkle-free. And your clothes should be appropriate for your physique and body type. Assembling a wardrobe that fits this last bill is no simple feat; it will require time and plenty of trial and error.

Your best starting point, again, is the Fashion channel at AskMen. Hair : Make sure that your hairstyle goes with the times and matches your clothing style as well as your age. Teeth : Brush your teeth every morning and evening, floss your teeth before going to bed, and see your dentist every six months to have your teeth cleaned. Clean, white teeth are a sign of good health. Fresh breath is a sign of cleanliness and will make it a lot easier for you to socialize with the ladies.

Skin : Women are turned off by greasy, acne-covered skin. Wipe any excess grease from your skin regularly and wash your face before going to bed. Facial hair : A common belief, unfair though it may seem, is that men with facial hair have something to hide. Shave every day—especially before you go out on a date. However, there are a few men who look better with facial hair than without.

You must control your odor. So shower on a daily basis, use deodorant, and apply some cologne where appropriate without going overboard—the point is to smell nice, not draw unnecessary attention. Your state of mind will benefit from your carefully groomed appearance, but you will have to take additional steps to prep a truly winning attitude.

Charm : Charm is not a single characteristic that can be easily adopted; it is perhaps better defined as a collection of traits that work together to create an intangible yet compelling attractiveness. It is no more easily assumed than it is defined, but one can take steps toward projecting charm in a very concrete fashion. Here are some points to start you off:.

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There's a sea of dating doctors, love gurus, and pickup artists out there, all peddling their own techniques and strategies for landing successful women. And while the advice of these competing experts rarely overlaps, there's a near-unanimous consensus on the one crucial element required for success with women: Confidence. Confidence is the deal-maker and the deal-breaker, and if there's one fundamental rule in the game of love, it's that the first step toward intimacy with a woman is approaching her. When it comes to approaching women, knowing exactly what to expect is crucial—what may happen, why it happens, and how to overcome obstacles. The main reason so many men fail to approach and talk to women is because they fear the unknown such as the possible slap of rejection.

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Askmen.com Presents from the Bar to the Bedroom : The 11 Rules for Picking Up and Pleasuring Women

Gentlemen, start your engines. From the Bar to the Bedroom is the definitive go-to book for anyone in need of guidance when it comes to bedding the fairer sex, from approaching the woman one wishes to take home to dazzling her once she's there. Divided into 11 rules, the book begins by helping men learn the fundamentals of confidence and conversation. It moves on to instruct men on the virtues of foreplay, the importance of having a sex-friendly bachelor pad, ways they can pick up women at the gym or at the office, and the variety of techniques and tricks they can use to make her night unforgettable. With tasteful line drawings, loads of tips, and a friendly, humorous tone, it is essential reading for everyone -- from the novice who wants to enter the game to the player who wants to polish his moves. Here at Walmart.

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